OK - some perspective may help here.
Going from the stock 32's, to 35's, is going to drop your RPM's by ~ 8.6% in every gear.
So, what ever rpm you are at with the 32's and 4.10's, will be ~ 8.6% lower with 35's and 4.10's.
Swapping in 4.88's RAISES your rpm for any given speed by ~ 16%
So, therefore, the OVERALL CHANGE in going from 32's and 4.1's, to 35's and 4.88's, is ~ a 7.7% RISE in RPM for any given speed.
So - If you are going along at 2,000 rpm with 32's and 4.10's...and kept going the same speed with 35's and 4.88's...your RPM would RISE to ~ 2,148 RPM.
This is pretty damn close...a few more rpm to help with leverage of the larger tires...and roughly stock acceleration, etc.
Of course, stock acceleration doesn't please every one, and, to sacrifice mpg for more oomph, you could gear deeper, to the 5.13's, etc.
The 5.13's RAISE the rpm's in every gear ~ another 4.9% over that of the 4.88's...
So...that 2,000 RPM that went to 2,148 RPM...now goes a bit higher, to ~ 2,253 RPM.
Hardly night and day, but ~ 250 RPM over the stock set-up none-the-less.
To take it in the opposite direction...
Lets say the 4.10's are cruising along at 2,000 RPM with the 32's, and you swap on 35's, WITHOUT re-gearing...
OK, your RPM DROP by ~ 8.6%, to ~ 1,828 RPM, or by ~ 172 RPM.
If that 172 rpm drop doesn't phase you, well, you could even keep the 4.10's in the diffs, pocket the extra MPG, and drive happy.
(You will have essentially given yourself the STOCK cruising RPM for the higher MPG base model JK...as that's the RPM range your fuel economy is peaked at.)
Hope that helps a bit!