Complain to eBay about abusing shipping fee. When enough people do that they intervene with the seller. I've done-it a couple of time when it was obvious that the seller was just trying to use the old trick of getting people to buy before properly checking shipping fee.
I ship a lota stuff and in my experience with different shippers prices can vary quite a bit depending on destination, size and weight. I know some sellers do inflate shipping for added profit, and that pisses me off too, but most sellers are very honest about shipping cost.
I just priced a shipment to Belguim for a JK front bumber it cost the guy over $500 to get it there:shaking: also 5 tire & wheel combos to US location $235:shaking:
I checked UPS and estimating the box sizes for 3 boxes totaling 150# to my location came up at $120. So if they are shipping via freight carrier it could be $150 and that is most likely worst case destination.
If you want to blame someone blame the shippers and fuel cost:bounce: