Ok picked up all the pieces/parts last Friday and Saturday and had time and help installing the bumper and winch Monday night. Here are some pics for any of you considering the same thing. Notes to follow:
and from inside this is all the stinger you see:
I had 2 problems a more intelligent or experienced person could have avoided. First, I installed the winch on the bumper before installing the bumper. That was GOOD. I did not however install the black negative cable to the winch first. It attaches on the bottom of the motor in the 3/4" gap between the motor and the winch plate, as indicated by the arrow. That was BAD. I had to pull the winch back off after the bumper was installed to fix this, and it was a major PIA.
Second, once everything was bolted up I stepped back and there was the fog light harness, dangling like Christmas lights from the bottom of the bumper. There is a SMALL gap between the skid plate bar and the bumper, as indicated in this pic. You cannot fit the harness and it's plug ends back through this gap, so my brother-in-law had to loosen off the lower 4 bolts and "bounce" the bumper upwards by pushing the stinger while I stuffed the harness and ends up through the gap. This was STUPID and I'm lucky to still have all my fingers for the effort.
Anyhow, when all is said and done I'm very happy with it. Besides my own stupid errors the thing went on very well... all the bolt holes lined up perfectly and I had PLENTY of slack to keep the factory fog light harness, in fact I had to secure the extra with some wire ties.