In advance, I'd like to say thanks for all your help guy's.
The issue seams to only be happening when I'm approaching 30mph, and going into second, she jump's or lunges into second. The hit seams to be, "allot" less hardcore if I approach very slowly, if I'm moving a Lil faster it starts to kick pretty hard, but every other gear shifts fine. and when shifting down there is no delay or negative feedback
My stinger usually grants me the right of way, "Mr.SmartCar".. just sayin'