I figured I'd share my VERY stupid mistake so no one else makes it... even though I doubt anyone will be as stupid as me
I don't have pix because I already installed the headlights but I'll try to be descriptive...
The headlights have 3 tabs on the rear... when I put them up to the stock headlight location... it seems those tabs do not belong there... So since I wasn't thinking... I cut the tabs off. Well they DO belong there... so don't cut them off!!! Now I have my headlights mounted with RTV
On a happy note... the headlights work great with HID's!!
Do you get to much flashing from others? the hella H4 are not designed for HID, I just changed one hella with a stone hole and changed to Osram coolblue, I like HID but I'm a little scared to blind others.