For shi...sake lately the whining is been quite something ,at start it was entertaining ,but lately it sound like a school full of girl having their PMS at the same time.
Chill out,you know in these day and ages, we got phone,txt tweeter,Facebook email ,forum or whatever way of communication you fancy. Communicate,be sure you are talking to the proper person,if you now sure ask.
Before ordering online make a damn call send a email, is it in stock? When do you expect to ship,how long you expect the build time,is the shop pretty busy?
Transport company suck big time ,yep they deliver damaged package,will be late,will loose your package.Check the damn package before singing anything,Yes the delivery guy will be piss and say he don't have the time still...why would you accept a box looking like that.
Most of the seller are small business ,they are human they have family ,problem ,good time and bad time.They do their best ,yes they will fuck up time to time ,no reason to wet your panties.
Lastly learn to live with your action,winning here can result of an enlargement of your shit hole and a reduction of your ego,if you wrong admit it.